Episode 263 - "Abram resolves conflict with faith" Genesis 13

Gen. 13:1 So Abram went up from Egypt, he and his wife and all that he had, and Lot with him, into the Negeb.

Gen. 13:2 Now Abram was very rich in livestock, in silver, and in gold. 3 And he journeyed on from the Negeb as far as Bethel to the place where his tent had been at the beginning, between Bethel and Ai, 4 to the place where he had made an altar at the first. And there Abram called upon the name of the LORD. 5 And Lot, who went with Abram, also had flocks and herds and tents, 6 so that the land could not support both of them dwelling together; for their possessions were so great that they could not dwell together, 7 and there was strife between the herdsmen of Abram’s livestock and the herdsmen of Lot’s livestock. At that time the Canaanites and the Perizzites were dwelling in the land.

Gen. 13:8 Then Abram said to Lot, “Let there be no strife between you and me, and between your herdsmen and my herdsmen, for we are kinsmen. 9 Is not the whole land before you? Separate yourself from me. If you take the left hand, then I will go to the right, or if you take the right hand, then I will go to the left.” 10 And Lot lifted up his eyes and saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere like the garden of the LORD, like the land of Egypt, in the direction of Zoar. (This was before the LORD destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.) 11 So Lot chose for himself all the Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed east. Thus they separated from each other. 12 Abram settled in the land of Canaan, while Lot settled among the cities of the valley and moved his tent as far as Sodom. 13 Now the men of Sodom were wicked, great sinners against the LORD.

Gen. 13:14 The LORD said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him, “Lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are, northward and southward and eastward and westward, 15 for all the land that you see I will give to you and to your offspring forever. 16 I will make your offspring as the dust of the earth, so that if one can count the dust of the earth, your offspring also can be counted. 17 Arise, walk through the length and the breadth of the land, for I will give it to you.” 18 So Abram moved his tent and came and settled by the oaks of Mamre, which are at Hebron, and there he built an altar to the LORD.

We have another sub-story concerning Abram that I think is worth saying a few words about a lot of words. This story brings Lot into focus along with Abram. As we learned earlier in Genesis, Lot’s father died, and his grandfather took responsibility for him until he died. Then, Lot continued with Abram. What we are told first is that Abram “was very rich” (Gen. 13:2) and Lot “had flocks and herds and tents” (Gen. 13:5). While we don’t know how wealthy Abram was when he left his home to follow the LORD, we learned in our last episode that at least some of Abram’s wealth came from the Pharoah of Egypt when Pharoah took Sarai into his house. The most crucial point in the context for the setting of this story is that the LORD blessed them both to the extent that they needed to spread out (Gen. 13:6). When herds and flocks grow in numbers, they need a lot of land to graze. Otherwise, they will destroy the grazing fields by overgrazing them.

Abram noticed the tension among the herdsmen in the competition for grazing land. Perhaps they even had a problem keeping the herds and flocks from mixing, and there were arguments over what livestock belonged to whom. It would seem that Abram had the right to make any decision he wanted to settle the conflict. He could have told Lot where to go and remain. Instead, he gave Lot the privilege of choosing where he would like to live and feed his livestock.

Look at verses 10-13 and notice how Lot responds to Abram’s offer. “Lot lifted up his eyes . . .” and chose what looked best to him. He chose the area that looked greener and better watered. From a human perspective, he chose the best land for himself. This creates some tension of its own at different levels. The author tells us that this is before Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed by God and that the men of Sodom, where Lot would make his home, were “wicked, great sinners against the LORD” (Gen. 13:13). The text also tells us that Abram made his home in Canaan. While we recognize there will likely be conflict between Abram and Ham’s descendants, we also understand that this is the place to where the LORD had led him and has now brought him back to after his time in Egypt seeking relief from the famine.

Now look at verse 14 and the following. The LORD told Abram to lift up his eyes and look in every direction. Lot is pictured as lifting up his eyes to choose what appears desirable to him. Abram, in contrast, obeys the LORD by lifting up his eyes to see what the LORD is giving him. What Lot does is similar to what Eve did in the garden. Instead of listening to the LORD, she judged that she wanted what looked good in her own judgment, regardless of what the LORD had commanded. Abram is trusting the LORD.

The picture of Abram’s faith in the LORD versus Lot’s actions according to his own senses and reason are further cemented when we’re told that Lot made his home among the cities (recall that Cain built a city) and Abram settled where the LORD led him and worshipped the LORD. (Gen. 13:12)

What a tremendous lesson we get from Abram. How I need to consider his approach to resolving conflict. I need to let things go and not hold on to what I think I deserve or defend my self-perceived rights. I need to trust that the LORD will provide what is good, necessary, and right for me. He already has. But will I remember it the next time and trust him?