Episode 299 - "Jacob's wrestling match" - Genesis 32:13-32
Gen. 32:13 So he stayed there that night, and from what he had with him he took a present for his brother Esau, 14 two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, 15 thirty milking camels and their calves, forty cows and ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten male donkeys. 16 These he handed over to his servants, every drove by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass on ahead of me and put a space between drove and drove.” 17 He instructed the first, “When Esau my brother meets you and asks you, ‘To whom do you belong? Where are you going? And whose are these ahead of you?’ 18 then you shall say, ‘They belong to your servant Jacob. They are a present sent to my lord Esau. And moreover, he is behind us.’” 19 He likewise instructed the second and the third and all who followed the droves, “You shall say the same thing to Esau when you find him, 20 and you shall say, ‘Moreover, your servant Jacob is behind us.’” For he thought, “I may appease him with the present that goes ahead of me, and afterward I shall see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.” 21 So the present passed on ahead of him, and he himself stayed that night in the camp.
Gen. 32:22 The same night he arose and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and everything else that he had. 24 And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 And he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then he said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed.” 29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel, saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered.” 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the people of Israel do not eat the sinew of the thigh that is on the hip socket, because he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip on the sinew of the thigh.
Jacob knows that one of his greatest questions or challenges in returning home is making peace, if possible, with his brother Esau. Therefore, Jacob is pulling out all the stops in his plan to appease Esau. It would be easy to suggest that Jacob is not trusting the LORD to protect him. But, I think Jacob is just being wise here. He sends a succession of gifts ahead of him to meet Esau. Whereas Esau’s desire for retribution might be rekindled, knowing that Jacob was returning home after all these years, he might have been angered even more with the first wave of gifts. Yet, the succession of these gifts surely sent a message that Jacob wanted peace and would spare no expense to secure that peace. Jacob is certainly expecting this strategy to effectively subdue Esau’s wrath (v. 20).
Genesis 32:22-23 appears to suggest that Jacob wasn’t 100 percent confident his plan would work and therefore, separated his family from where he would sleep in an effort to protect them from harm by Esau’s men.
In the place where Jacob camped alone, the text simply states that a man wrestled with Jacob (v.24). Most scholars believe this was an angel who appeared as a man. If that’s the case, shouldn’t an angel have tremendous power and easily defeat Jacob? Why were they wrestling in the first place? These kinds of questions have puzzled me as long as I can remember. This is where our principle of reading the context can help lead us to a reasonable and often a “safe” understanding of what’s happening in the text.
Notice how the “man” appears to dislocate Jacob’s hip, and yet Jacob will not let him go. Jacob tells him, “I will not let you go unless you bless me” (v. 26). The man’s response is to ask Jacob his name. Wouldn’t an angel know his name? Perhaps. But again, the context then reveals that this man has the authority to give Jacob the new name of Israel because Jacob “has struggled with God and men and has prevailed” (v. 28). There’s an understatement of a lifetime. Clearly, this man is some kind of agent from the LORD because he has knowledge and authority from God.
Jacob then asks him his name, and the man’s response is “Why is it that you ask my name” (v. 29)? I’m not sure if this is rhetorical, meaning “You should know who I am,” or possibly “Does it matter that you know my name because you know who sent me?”
The man then blessed Jacob and Jacob named the place Peniel because, he explained, “I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered” (v. 30). It would seem from this context that the “man” was actually a theophany or Christophany. (An appearance of God, or Jesus prior to his incarnation.)
The bottom line is that this experience was to affirm God’s presence with Jacob and make his faith more sure. Whatever insecurities Jacob has with the LORD, the LORD is patiently addressing. What a gracious God. This is one more example, contrary to the views of some, the God of the Old Testament is not evil and sadistic.