Episode 104 - "Love one another" - John 15:12-17

John 15:12   “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant, does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. 17 These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

In the preceding text covered in the last episode, Jesus spoke of himself as the “True Vine.” He is contrasting himself with the nation of Israel that, as God’s vine, repeatedly failed to produce the fruit it was intended to bear. God the Father is the “vinedresser;” the person who looks after the vine to prune it and do whatever is necessary to make it healthy and produce the most and best fruit possible. Jesus’ disciples then are the branches that are to abide in the vine and bear much fruit as God tends to us for that purpose. 

The way we are to abide or stay connected to Jesus is by being ever-dependent upon him; keeping his words and teaching in our minds and hearts and allowing them to guide our thoughts, values, and actions. Obeying his commands is not burdensome. It’s not about keeping a checklist of good works. It’s about accepting and receiving his love for us and sharing that with others. In doing so, we receive the full experience of joy.  

In John 13:34 Jesus told his disciples, “I give you a new commandment - to love one another.” Jesus repeats this command in John 15:12. At the beginning of this study almost two years ago, I spoke about repetition and how it shows that something is being emphasized when it is repeated. Jesus repeats things often as shown in the book and the author repeats things to emphasize his perspective on Jesus’ life and ministry. Clearly, Jesus’ priority for his disciples is for them to love one another. 

Jesus explains that this kind of love of which he is speaking is not a romantic kind of love that we think about in our day and culture. This is a love that is a self-sacrificing kind of love. Jesus is about to demonstrate that kind of love for his disciples and for us. 

Jesus tells his disciples that his relationship with them is transitioning from one of a teacher-to-disciple type of relationship, which was very similar to master/servant, to him now calling them friends. He explains that in the former kind of relationship, the servant is given a job to do without any explanations of why. But, Jesus has shown them and taught them what he was given by the Father. They are to continue on the work he has begun. But, this work given to Jesus’ disciples is not simply tasks done out of obligation, fear, and complete ignorance of its purpose, but out of a close, personal relationship and performed out of love and joy that he gives us. 

Jesus then reminds them that he chose them for this privilege of “bearing fruit that remains.” (v. 16) Has it occurred to you that the Son of God, Jesus has chosen you for an assignment in which he has equipped and empowered us, given us the Holy Spirit, and made us his friends and that whatever we need in this mission we can ask in His name and the Father will give it to us?  It makes sense that getting on board with this should bring us such joy. 

Now, in case you missed it earlier, we must love one another. (v. 17)

Episode 94 - "You must love one another as I have loved you" - John 13:33-35

33 Little children, yet a little while I am with you. You will seek me, and just as I said to the Jews, so now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going you cannot come.’ 34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

Jesus, addressing his disciples as “little children,” was not demeaning to these adult followers. It was a manner with which a rabbi would have addressed his students. This is similar to Proverbs where the sage addresses his recipient as “My child” or “My son.” The “son” is not necessarily the biological or adoptive parent of the one to whom he is imparting wisdom. In fact, as we read the Proverbs, each of us is “the son” who needs to learn the wisdom shared. This address from Jesus to his disciples is affectionate but authoritative. It reminds them that he is their teacher and he is about to teach them something important and they need to pay attention. 

He tells them that he will only be with them a little while longer before he goes away. Furthermore, they will not be able to follow him. They didn’t understand it then and, as we’ll see, Peter does not want to accept this as certain. But, they would not be able to follow him to the cross, to the grave, or back to the Father in heaven. Why is that? 

Jesus explains the reason. He intends for them to remain for the purpose that the world recognizes that they are Jesus’ disciples. Why is that important? Clearly, the Father wants the world to understand his love for mankind. The world cannot thwart God expressing His love toward mankind. His disciples would be so impacted by Jesus that they would risk their own lives to carry on this message from the Father through the Son to the world. How were they supposed to do that?

Jesus told them they must show the same kind of love toward each other that he was showing to them. What did that kind of love look like? He had just given them the example of washing each other’s feet. But, he was about to take it much farther by laying down his life for the sins of the world. These men could not lay down their lives for others’ sins. But, Jesus was telling them that their attitudes and actions would need to become such that they would even lay down their lives for the interest of others. That is the kind of love Jesus said would cause the world to take notice and they would understand that these were disciples of Jesus. The implication of this is that Jesus was planning on his disciples making an impact upon the world by drawing others to faith in Jesus through this kind of love. This principle continues to this day and the command to love others with the same kind of love Jesus showed applies to us. 

As I reflect on this, I think to myself how great it is to love others and how wonderful a privilege it is to tell others about the good news of Jesus. But, if I honestly ask myself if I want to love other believers with that sacrificial kind of love that Christ showed me, I can easily think of people who I don’t want to love that deeply. This is why we need to remember Jesus. Each of us needs to be reminded of the quality and depth of his love and that he wants us to show that to others.